Every once and a while, people wish they could lay out their life dreams on a big floor and simply pick the one they want to enjoy for that moment. Well, reality says that for most of us, we never really get that chance to do or be what we alswys dreamed to me because something always seems to get in the way. For some, those barriers come from family members around us who only can see the negatives about something and shout out from their reactions and small comments that hurt "Failure" or "you will never be able to do that"! How do they know. This writer believes that no effort should ever be seen as failure but rather Succes because "YOU TRIED! Failure is never trying, because if you don't try, you will never know and your road is yours and that is how successes are found and enjoyed. Don't let people steel your dreams and when you find that new self confidence that new sense of purpose, you can become what you have always wanted to be. Life does land some serious blows sometimes and it is hard to get up and brush the dust off . You see the greatness of a person is not so much measured on how he was or is knocked down but rather how he or she gets up! Divorce does knock you down and that is no lie and everyone loses to some degree. Yes, i know you would agree that there are gaines and losses and at time more hurtful things said and done that should ever have happened. Lifes reality is that hurtful and painful things do happen and are said but that does not mean that you can't rise above it. Remember, there is really only one main thing you can control and that is how you will react to what happens around you. You an either let that person wear you down or a situation break your spirit, or you can face it with confidence and be like that little engine that could and say as you climb another hill " I KNOW I CAN' I KNOW I CAN"!
I think you would agree, that family, co-workers, finances, friends, and even time, can play a major role in deflating our dreams. Once you decide to take control of your life and direction, there will be nothing you can't rise above and then like the eagles that ride the currants of the wind, you will truly be free to be all that you want to be and enjoy all that life has for you. If this little is a help to you, fell free to encourage your friends and family members to come and enjoy the articles in this blog.
